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Balanced Living, the Swedish Way

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On sale Dec 26, 2017 | 224 Pages | 9780399581342
An inviting exploration of "the new hygge": the Swedish concept of lagom—finding balance in moderation—featuring inspiration and practical advice on how to find a happy medium in life, home, work, and health.

Following the cultural phenomena of fika and hygge, the allure of Scandinavian culture and tradition continues in the Swedish concept of lagom. From home design and work-life balance, to personal well-being and environmental sustainability, author Anna Brones presents valuable Swedish-inspired tips and actionable ways to create a more intentional, healthy lifestyle. Instead of thinking about how we can work less, lagom teaches us to think about how we can work better. Lagom at home is about finding balance between aesthetics and function, focusing on simplicity, light, and open spaces. Health and wellness in lagom is a holistic approach for the body and mind, including connecting more in person, caring for self, managing stress, keeping active, and embacing enjoyment in daily routine. Live Lagom inspires us to slow down and find happiness in everyday balance.
Praise for Fika:

"The book is a delicious compendium of nearly 50 illustrated recipes inspired by Brones and Kindvall's childhoods, equally fueled by fika. The cookies, cakes and breads (including savory variants) tap right into a growing, universal quest to achieve a more laid-back European lifestyle."
—Lindsey Tramuta,
New York Times T Magazine

"As accessible as it is insightful, Fika is a baking book mixed with etiquette how-to and cultural know-how, iced with a calendar of holidays and expressed as a work of illustrated art."
—Anne Bramley,
Paste Magazine 
ANNA BRONES is a Swedish-American freelance writer based in Seattle. She is the editor of the online food magazine Foodie Underground, has been featured in the New York Times, and is a contributor to a variety of publications including BBCGuardian, Sprudge, Women's Adventure, GOOD, and PUNCH. She is the author of several books, including Fika and Hello, Bicycle. View titles by Anna Brones
INTRODUCTION 

Sweden is a land of extremes. In the winter darkness feels everlasting, yet in the height of summer the sun barely sets. Dense, scarcely populated forests are home to lakes surrounded by granite rocks. Even in the cosmopolitan areas nature is never far away. Yet in these extremes there is a balance, a path through the middle that takes inspiration from the Swedish climate and environment. On the coldest days, warm candles flicker in a kitchen window; a welcoming scene in contrast to the stark landscape outside. Summer is a celebration, a time to release the darkness of the rest of the year, and life flourishes. This Nordic land is a country of calming hues, the pale grays and blues of the rocks and sky easing into warm yellows of the sun streaming into a living room. Buildings are orderly, functional, their design an expression of the culture that has brought them to life. 

Whether we’ve spent time in Sweden or not, we are most likely familiar with this Scandinavian country, partial to some of these scenes. For many, there is an allure to Sweden, and while its population is small, its cultural influence is significant. Without even having travelled there, we feel like we know the Swedes. We’ve listened to their music, read their books, tasted their food, been inspired by their design. There is a love and respect for Swedish culture, often admiration, even for those who aren’t affiliated by family connection or haven’t stepped foot into the country. 

Culturally, Sweden is often put on a pedestal, the place we sometimes dream of living, the place we look to for lessons on how to live. Like its Scandinavian counterparts, it’s a country where the quality of living is high, people are treated equally and nature is respected and revered. The country is regularly among the top players in lists of best places to live—for social health, happiness, sustainability, and beyond—giving economists and political scientists renewed reason to look to the Nordic Model. 

From the outside looking in, Swedish culture exudes a general calmness and order. Things rarely seem to be out of place, with no room for chaos. The most visual representation of this is Scandinavian design. Simple and pared down, the country’s most well-known designs speak to a need for function and aesthetic. Even in the wilder colors and prints to be found in iconic Swedish textiles, there is a general sense of rationality; never too much to leave you feeling overwhelmed, just enough to keep you interested. 

In a chaotic, modern world, this all feels like a breath of fresh air. We’re craving more balance, more equality, more simplicity. We’re looking for something that’s often hard to put an exact name to, but it’s a feeling of contentedness, of having just the right amount of things, the right amount of time. 

The Swedes happen to have a word for exactly that: lagom. The modern meaning roughly translates to “just right.” Not too much, not too little . . . just something in the middle, the moderate choice between two extremes. Lagom is a thread that ties many parts of Swedish society and culture together, the cornerstone of personal behavior, design ethos, and community. There is no quantifiable amount of lagom, which can sometimes make it hard to grasp exactly what it is. Lagom is part personal balance and part social understanding, something that’s good for us and the world around us. As we strive to manage our busy everyday lives, lagom might just be the key that we need to unlock a more intentional, balanced, healthy lifestyle. 

As the daughter of a Swedish expat, I grew up not loving lagom. Certainly, it was a word commonly used in my household: “How much food do you want?” “Lagom.” “How much coffee should I pour?” “Lagom,” but as a driver of behavior, lagom was to be avoided. My mother, an artist, was born and raised in Sweden. For her, lagom represented the structure of the restrictive Swedish social box that she had wanted to leave in her twenties, moving to the American West Coast where social expectations were at a bare minimum and she felt that she had more freedom to be who she wanted to be. In my mother’s view, lagom was less about balance and more about the social equalizer; the thing that restrained you, kept you from being able to fully express who you were and what you wanted. 

But as I have grown older and started to think about lagom in more complex ways, I see how it trickled into our family life regardless, perhaps in ways that weren’t immediately apparent to my mother or myself. While our family was eccentric in its own ways, we were lagom as well, channeling a Swedish approach to the world around us. We always ate balanced meals, full of whole grains and vegetables, and we tried to reduce our impact on the environment as best we could, my mother tending the compost in the garden and washing out plastic bags to be reused. I grew up with the mantra that good things cost money, that when you buy quality, you are making a long-term investment, not one dictated by trends or fleeting interests. My parents believed in the value of public school, that social good came from the benefit of an entire community, not just an individual. Our sofas were covered in wool blankets and our cupboards full of textiles made from natural fibers. Perhaps our lifestyle wasn’t so lagom vis-à-vis our American neighbors (who most likely thought that we were a bit extreme in our ways), but it certainly was representative of a more Swedish approach to living, one that was moderate and mindful.

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An inviting exploration of "the new hygge": the Swedish concept of lagom—finding balance in moderation—featuring inspiration and practical advice on how to find a happy medium in life, home, work, and health.

Following the cultural phenomena of fika and hygge, the allure of Scandinavian culture and tradition continues in the Swedish concept of lagom. From home design and work-life balance, to personal well-being and environmental sustainability, author Anna Brones presents valuable Swedish-inspired tips and actionable ways to create a more intentional, healthy lifestyle. Instead of thinking about how we can work less, lagom teaches us to think about how we can work better. Lagom at home is about finding balance between aesthetics and function, focusing on simplicity, light, and open spaces. Health and wellness in lagom is a holistic approach for the body and mind, including connecting more in person, caring for self, managing stress, keeping active, and embacing enjoyment in daily routine. Live Lagom inspires us to slow down and find happiness in everyday balance.

Praise

Praise for Fika:

"The book is a delicious compendium of nearly 50 illustrated recipes inspired by Brones and Kindvall's childhoods, equally fueled by fika. The cookies, cakes and breads (including savory variants) tap right into a growing, universal quest to achieve a more laid-back European lifestyle."
—Lindsey Tramuta,
New York Times T Magazine

"As accessible as it is insightful, Fika is a baking book mixed with etiquette how-to and cultural know-how, iced with a calendar of holidays and expressed as a work of illustrated art."
—Anne Bramley,
Paste Magazine 

Author

ANNA BRONES is a Swedish-American freelance writer based in Seattle. She is the editor of the online food magazine Foodie Underground, has been featured in the New York Times, and is a contributor to a variety of publications including BBCGuardian, Sprudge, Women's Adventure, GOOD, and PUNCH. She is the author of several books, including Fika and Hello, Bicycle. View titles by Anna Brones

Excerpt

INTRODUCTION 

Sweden is a land of extremes. In the winter darkness feels everlasting, yet in the height of summer the sun barely sets. Dense, scarcely populated forests are home to lakes surrounded by granite rocks. Even in the cosmopolitan areas nature is never far away. Yet in these extremes there is a balance, a path through the middle that takes inspiration from the Swedish climate and environment. On the coldest days, warm candles flicker in a kitchen window; a welcoming scene in contrast to the stark landscape outside. Summer is a celebration, a time to release the darkness of the rest of the year, and life flourishes. This Nordic land is a country of calming hues, the pale grays and blues of the rocks and sky easing into warm yellows of the sun streaming into a living room. Buildings are orderly, functional, their design an expression of the culture that has brought them to life. 

Whether we’ve spent time in Sweden or not, we are most likely familiar with this Scandinavian country, partial to some of these scenes. For many, there is an allure to Sweden, and while its population is small, its cultural influence is significant. Without even having travelled there, we feel like we know the Swedes. We’ve listened to their music, read their books, tasted their food, been inspired by their design. There is a love and respect for Swedish culture, often admiration, even for those who aren’t affiliated by family connection or haven’t stepped foot into the country. 

Culturally, Sweden is often put on a pedestal, the place we sometimes dream of living, the place we look to for lessons on how to live. Like its Scandinavian counterparts, it’s a country where the quality of living is high, people are treated equally and nature is respected and revered. The country is regularly among the top players in lists of best places to live—for social health, happiness, sustainability, and beyond—giving economists and political scientists renewed reason to look to the Nordic Model. 

From the outside looking in, Swedish culture exudes a general calmness and order. Things rarely seem to be out of place, with no room for chaos. The most visual representation of this is Scandinavian design. Simple and pared down, the country’s most well-known designs speak to a need for function and aesthetic. Even in the wilder colors and prints to be found in iconic Swedish textiles, there is a general sense of rationality; never too much to leave you feeling overwhelmed, just enough to keep you interested. 

In a chaotic, modern world, this all feels like a breath of fresh air. We’re craving more balance, more equality, more simplicity. We’re looking for something that’s often hard to put an exact name to, but it’s a feeling of contentedness, of having just the right amount of things, the right amount of time. 

The Swedes happen to have a word for exactly that: lagom. The modern meaning roughly translates to “just right.” Not too much, not too little . . . just something in the middle, the moderate choice between two extremes. Lagom is a thread that ties many parts of Swedish society and culture together, the cornerstone of personal behavior, design ethos, and community. There is no quantifiable amount of lagom, which can sometimes make it hard to grasp exactly what it is. Lagom is part personal balance and part social understanding, something that’s good for us and the world around us. As we strive to manage our busy everyday lives, lagom might just be the key that we need to unlock a more intentional, balanced, healthy lifestyle. 

As the daughter of a Swedish expat, I grew up not loving lagom. Certainly, it was a word commonly used in my household: “How much food do you want?” “Lagom.” “How much coffee should I pour?” “Lagom,” but as a driver of behavior, lagom was to be avoided. My mother, an artist, was born and raised in Sweden. For her, lagom represented the structure of the restrictive Swedish social box that she had wanted to leave in her twenties, moving to the American West Coast where social expectations were at a bare minimum and she felt that she had more freedom to be who she wanted to be. In my mother’s view, lagom was less about balance and more about the social equalizer; the thing that restrained you, kept you from being able to fully express who you were and what you wanted. 

But as I have grown older and started to think about lagom in more complex ways, I see how it trickled into our family life regardless, perhaps in ways that weren’t immediately apparent to my mother or myself. While our family was eccentric in its own ways, we were lagom as well, channeling a Swedish approach to the world around us. We always ate balanced meals, full of whole grains and vegetables, and we tried to reduce our impact on the environment as best we could, my mother tending the compost in the garden and washing out plastic bags to be reused. I grew up with the mantra that good things cost money, that when you buy quality, you are making a long-term investment, not one dictated by trends or fleeting interests. My parents believed in the value of public school, that social good came from the benefit of an entire community, not just an individual. Our sofas were covered in wool blankets and our cupboards full of textiles made from natural fibers. Perhaps our lifestyle wasn’t so lagom vis-à-vis our American neighbors (who most likely thought that we were a bit extreme in our ways), but it certainly was representative of a more Swedish approach to living, one that was moderate and mindful.